Wednesday, December 5, 2018

A Parade Via Sweat Equity


One year ago today I was sobbing on the treadmill @ Renzo Gracie PA, a place most would describe as an MMA gym, but one that often serves as my cathedral.  I was in between clients last December 5th, getting my own cardio in, as my playlist gave way to frenzied alerts and notifications.   My lifelong friend Anthony Ceccomancini and the love of his life very narrowly escaped death as their home and everything except their pets, a box of important documents, and their cars, succumbed to the wildfire that engulfed them.  Over the next few days while sharing the gofundme link that my high school lab partner and fellow thespian Amy Jo initiated on their behalf, I posted that I would “personally host a parade in honor of their neighbor, Jacqui Bally.”  The Bally’s delayed their own get-away as Jacqui fiercely pounded on Cecco and Elise’s door at 4am or so that morning.  She saved their lives.  So, believe me, that parade is happening.  But, not in some showy display that Cecco would never abide.  Indeed, every time throughout this year that I have asked, “What else I can do to help?” Cecco emphatically responds: “Just keep sending us your love and support.”   I can’t stop there.  Maybe it is all those drama club rehearsals where TL ingrained that “show; don’t tell” discipline; maybe it is the outgrowth of far more recent lessons where exercise serves as exorcist, but I confess that I have been in cahoots with Elise Drozdowski to find a way to both repay the heavens for their escape and restore their spirits as they work through recovering their hearts and home.  I created a Charity Miles campaign and asked Elise to help me choose a charity that Cecco would want to support.  After a little covert action on Elise’s part, we selected Habitat for Humanity.  All the donations come from sponsors, so I am not soliciting money; just miles.  I am donating all of my miles between now and December 5, 2019.  Please join my Charity Miles team #findyes or download the app and simply choose Habitat for Humanity as your charity of choice.